1. I keep thinking about a romantic date Stephen and I have back in LA. A friend of mine gave us a little picnic basket as a gift. So one day we gathered up our stuff and went to the park down the street. It was one of the few days we had alone time. Now I keep spending an obscene amount of time looking at picnic baskets for myself, and to give to everyone I know in the world. Like seriously, who wouldn't want this? If Scotland was picnic friendly (I am obviously talking about in terms of weather) I would totally go picnic right now. Anyone super sick of me talking about the weather yet and or reading the word 'picnic'? because I am.
2. I went through a crazy reading phase a few months ago and read this, this and this in less than two weeks. They were all amazing...especially this one. If you haven't read it, leave now and don't come back until you have finished it. I am about to start this one thanks to Elizabeths recommendation. Have any of you read it? Want to read it together?
3. Stephen's suit came in for the wedding. It makes it seem a little more real. Only 5 months until the big day...does someone want to come over and take over the planning?
4. Your comments on yesterday's post made me even MORE excited to move back to the USA this summer. Like, I want to have a big welcome home party. Everyone is invited.
5. Speaking of yesterday's post. Thanks to the wonderful world of blogging and twitter, someone who read it and tweeted me just may have saved S and I a lot of trouble and hardship with guiding us in a better Plan B direction. I feel so much less stressed now knowing we wont have to fear being separated, and a lot thankful for awesome strangers willing to offer up help/answer my insane amount of questions and e mails. I promise to pay it forward for anyone who will need help getting their British lover to the USA.
6. I am planning on posting my California Bridal shower soon. Like in the next couple of weeks. You know, the one I had a month ago? That one. I am excited about it.
7. We are heading to N.Ireland at the end of the month. It will be our last trip (hopefully) for a few months. I'll be having my hair trial, makeup trial, and we will be having our food tasting (best part) meeting with the minister, AND filling out the paper work for our marriage license. BIG things are happenings.
8. After three winters of trial and error, I have finally narrowed down my top winter essentials. I'll show you them tomorrow.
9. I am about to get honest with you all. I have this irrational fear that keeps me up at night. I am so scared of having the stomach flu symptoms the day of the wedding. Please tell me it is every bride and grooms fear of puking at the alter? I can breath in my dress, so that gets rid of the fear of passing out, but I am up at night planning the best way to puke at the alter. Is there a way to just sort of excuse myself? Signal the minister, a bridesmaid, anyone to create a diversion? This has nothing to do with nerves of the wedding. I have had this irrational fear my whole life. First day of school. What if I puke? First day of college. What if I puke? Summer Camp. forget it, ill end up puking. Sleep-overs. What if I feel sick? THIS IS NOT NORMAL.
5. Speaking of yesterday's post. Thanks to the wonderful world of blogging and twitter, someone who read it and tweeted me just may have saved S and I a lot of trouble and hardship with guiding us in a better Plan B direction. I feel so much less stressed now knowing we wont have to fear being separated, and a lot thankful for awesome strangers willing to offer up help/answer my insane amount of questions and e mails. I promise to pay it forward for anyone who will need help getting their British lover to the USA.
6. I am planning on posting my California Bridal shower soon. Like in the next couple of weeks. You know, the one I had a month ago? That one. I am excited about it.
7. We are heading to N.Ireland at the end of the month. It will be our last trip (hopefully) for a few months. I'll be having my hair trial, makeup trial, and we will be having our food tasting (best part) meeting with the minister, AND filling out the paper work for our marriage license. BIG things are happenings.
8. After three winters of trial and error, I have finally narrowed down my top winter essentials. I'll show you them tomorrow.
9. I am about to get honest with you all. I have this irrational fear that keeps me up at night. I am so scared of having the stomach flu symptoms the day of the wedding. Please tell me it is every bride and grooms fear of puking at the alter? I can breath in my dress, so that gets rid of the fear of passing out, but I am up at night planning the best way to puke at the alter. Is there a way to just sort of excuse myself? Signal the minister, a bridesmaid, anyone to create a diversion? This has nothing to do with nerves of the wedding. I have had this irrational fear my whole life. First day of school. What if I puke? First day of college. What if I puke? Summer Camp. forget it, ill end up puking. Sleep-overs. What if I feel sick? THIS IS NOT NORMAL.





The photo of you & S is very cute. I love your outfit.
ReplyDeleteUgh, Gone Girl, don't get me started. But, Room, fascinating. I read it ages ago and it still pops in and out of my mind. Be prepared to be disturbed though.
I'm SO glad she was able to help, and I'm so sorry too that I wasn't in the end - I guess I didn't realize that the differences between applying from within the US or the UK were so great. but woooooooo because it makes your life easier!
ReplyDelete#9--I came home from 6th grade camp because I was scared I would throw up. Actually, I think I actually missed half of 6th grade because "what if I throw up at school?" Not. Normal. I sanitized everything and everyone near me before my wedding! Irrational, yes. But I didn't throw up at the alter ;)
ReplyDeleteyou and i might be the same
DeleteI love, love, love that picture of you and Stephen! The two of your look so perfect together it's insane. And thank you for sharing your reading recommendations. I have heard so many good things about Gone Girl but for one reason or another keep forgetting about it. I'll definitely add it to my list this time. :)
ReplyDeleteThank you!!! and omg Lyndsay you have to read it!
Deleteyou're not gonna puke at the altar. you just won't. it's june, stomach bug's not in its prime then!
ReplyDeletealso... I LOVE THAT PICTURE.
I actually didn't love Gone Girl, but Room was excellent (and a super fast read).
ReplyDeleteAnd I have the same sort of fear about my August wedding. I keep convincing myself it's statistically unlikely...but still. Glad to know I'm not alone :)
I had the stomach flu for the three days leading up to my wedding! I wasn't puking, but still had symptoms if you know what I mean. I was so worried I'd have to run from the altar and up all the stairs into the bathroom. It would have been awful, but I felt great that morning! Try to avoid sick people and wash your hands like a crazy woman! And, if you're sick the day before, put a little oregano oil in water and drink it.... kills the virus!
ReplyDeleteYou'll be perfectly healthy I'm sure :)
oh gosh that would have scared me so bad!!! I am so glad everything was fine on your day though!!
DeleteSo exciting that Stephen got his tux! We still need to get Brians. He just got his ring yesterday and mine should be here soon :) I was just telling Brian - only 5 more months!! I'm sooo excited!!
ReplyDeleteI love that picture of you and Stephen. You two look great and that skirt is beautiful!
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I have been so busy with this thing called a job (big side eye) that I missed all this fun info. So happy that you'll be in the same country as me soon! I'm terrified that I'm going to have the flu all the time. ALL THE TIME.
ReplyDeleteI am super impressed with your timeline! Justin and I are both huge procrastinators, so he his suit JUST arrived yesterday, less than 2 weeks before then wedding. It ended up getting held up in customs for about 3 weeks, which was honestly the most stressful part of this whole thing. We also JUST got our rings (which I keep trying on like a little kid). Apparently we aren't normal. Oh, and with this flu epidemic hitting the US, you BET I'm scared of being puking (or worse - it is mexico) at the wedding. And thanks for reading suggestions - I'm looking for some good ones!
ReplyDeleteyou two are so cute! and ROOM! i read it. wow. i mean wow. its so good. and disturbing. but then again so is everything i am reading nowadays- why is that? and meggie! i wrote about books back in September and we pretty much read the same things! you should read the other couple on my list! especially defending jacob! http://www.choosetobehappyblog.com/2012/09/blondes-have-more-fun-brunettes-can-read_26.html
ReplyDeleteSO glad Plan B will work for you!! I'm really happy to be a sounding board at any time! jx
ReplyDeletehonestly you helped SO much. Like if you hadnt said anything we would have NEVER known we could do it that way. It is so much easier, quicker, and SUCH a relief to us!!! thank you!!
DeleteOMG OMG OMG ALL OF GILLIAN FLYNN'S NOVELS. I died when I finished my last one because I had nothing left. Now I'm going back and reading all of them because they were THAT GOOD and creeped me out sufficiently. Also Room is on my list.
ReplyDeleteI have Gone Girl on the wait list at the library. I'm so excited to read it whenever it finally comes back in stock.
ReplyDeleteThe morning of my wedding I woke up with a bad upset stomach. I was so upset b/c come on, it was my wedding day and I should feel great. I think then being upset made me feel even worse. Luckily after the morning of home remedies (um, sprite and eggs??), it went away and I dodged a bullet. I think it was b/c I got ridiculous hiccups the night before, and it messed up my stomach. It has happened since. I worried for months before that I would get a migraine on the day of (I get them, they make me want to die, and stress seems to help bring them on), so I totally understand the paranoia. Anyway, don't get hiccups the night before, and you should be fine. No flu in June so no worries!
oh.my.gosh. I got SO sucked into Gone Girl - I read it a couple weeks ago and I still haven't gotten over it. like...it just completely changed my way of thinking about life.
ReplyDeleteit's really exciting to think about how soon your wedding is!!! I mean, I'm not involved in the event in any way, but I'm getting excited for you. :) you and S deserve a happy ending (free from vomit).
girl... if i even LOOK at green beans or poop.. I'LL puke.
ReplyDeleteobviously, both of those things have EVERYTHING to do with this post (;
wait, i got it! looking at that picture of you two makes me want to puke- rainbows and sunshine and babies puke, specifically... and now i'm checking out your book recs (are you on goodreads?)
I had a crazy fear of fainting on the wedding day. Probably because I fainted at my dress fitting (twice). So embarrassing. But in my defense, it was HOT and I was a bit stressed/nervous. But I made it through the Big Day just fine and you will too!
ReplyDeleteI want to read all of those books. I'm doing it. And watching the movies you posted about the other day that I STILL haven't seen. And...I think lots of people have the irrational fear of puking. Potted plant near the altar? Fun(gross) story: when my sister was in highschool, she was the band's drum major and she threw up during competition and held it in her mouth until the performance was over. Sorry for making you puke just now, hopefully you got some practice for the big day. Just in case.
ReplyDeleteHaha, I'm afraid I will cry the whole time and look horrible (ugly cry) in all my pictures!! I cry over everything!!! A dad hugs his daughter. I cry. Someone says something emotional. I cry. Any romantic comedy with a sappy ending. I cry.
ReplyDeleteI have 8 months to knock it off!!
LOVE Gillian Flynn. I got sad when I finished everything she has published. I'm sure you'll like Room, it's really different.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you won't throw up, but I definitely am nervous about it too! That and having the ever so sexy hives. Talk about HOT!
I read all of Gillian Flynn's novels in a week too! I highly recommend them. And then I recommend reading something more light hearted after, as they are a bit depressing and dark.
ReplyDeleteI know all about the fear of having to throw up or pass out on big moments. But to prevent all of it you should just take some Imodium or something - it stops the stomach from misbehaving in any way - and you'll be fine! :) x
ReplyDeleteMy wedding is in two months and my recurring nightmare is falling down the altar stairs when we walk out for the recessional (:
ReplyDeleteBut now I may have another fear after reading your post!
Good luck with the immigration issues...I certainly know all about the hassles of this process...
On first glance you've got the Kate Middleton look all over in that pic. Y'all look adorable. By the way, the ol picnic bit. YES. Picnic-ing is the bomb diggity. Never stop going on picnics. Marriage advice...(so says me).
ReplyDeleteOh, Room is so good. But really, really, really messed up.
ReplyDeleteCute photo! Can't wait to see the rest! Love your book suggestions! Definitely going to have to check them out!
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I love that your biggest fear is puking hahaha.
ReplyDeleteAlso, what about paying it forward to someone needing to bring over an Australian lover??
I read Gone Girl this summer in about 24 hours. I could NOT put it down (might have been because I was at Zach's family reunion?). It was so good and SO creepy. I heard that they're making a movie with Reese Witherspoon as Amy, which I think would be such an interesting character for her. I also read Room at the end of the summer, and I finished it in a day as well. It wasn't the same type of compelling read, but it was definitely interesting. A little unnerving, but still a good read.
ReplyDeleteAre the other Gillian Flynn novels just as good as Gone Girl? I had never read anything by her before Gone Girl. Love a good mystery!
Omg Gone Girl is amazing. Seriously thinking about starting Room with you! Have you started it yet? Thoughts so far? I started reading The Host and I just really can't get into it.
ReplyDeleteI had commented on one of your previous posts that I was indeed horribly sick on my wedding day! Everything else was planned and done perfectly because I had put in all the work well beforehand. So, the day of I wasn't worried. Getting sick just happened. Just don't worry about it. Prepare everything ahead of time so that you don't have to do much the day. That way if the worst happens, you can just focus on getting your hair/makeup done and getting dressed. I had a ballgown so it was horrible to wear with being sick and the heat. But, I let everyone know I was sick so that nothing was drug out, like during the ceremony.
ReplyDeleteBut, I'm sure you'll be fine. Just prepare regardless. Try to remember that if you at least make it through the ceremony/ 'I do's', that is the real point of your day. I just kept remembering that at the end of the day that I had married my best friend.
Good Luck, you'll be fine! & Good Luck with immigration.
I remember your comment!! I know its just me being paranoid...i wish there was a way to just shut off my irrational brain.
Deletenow thats a smart idea..if im sick just tell them to cut the ceremony extra short?? because its like AN HOUR LONG..its how they roll here...
You'll be so busy/excited the day of your wedding, you won't remember to puke! Haha!
ReplyDeleteI'm hoping I get Gone Girl in the blogger book swap I'm doing! YOU WILL BE FINE!!!
ReplyDeleteoh man.. this is all just too much goodness. haha The puking thing is amazing. I have a fear of the words tuberculosis, hepatitis, and nose bleed. they make me weak when i hear them and i get faint. I am not normal though.
ReplyDeleteSo excited to see your wedding pictures...!!! hair, makeup... ahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!! :)
um, and i had something else to say... but it escapes me.
maybe it was...
YOUR GORGEOUS :)
Ahhhh Room is SO good! I am supposed to be reading Gone Girl but haven't yet- I really need to get on it!
ReplyDeleteI know you are talking about some serious things, but all I can think about is (because of looking at that picture) that you two are going to have some beautiful children. And I'm sort of thinking you should just let Stephen do all the talking and maybe the little ones will pick up a cute accent of some sort and that will just make them ridiculously adorable.
ReplyDeleteThat whole comment was ridiculous, wasn't it?
Do you think if I moved to the UK for 5 years my kids would have cute accents?
I can't get over how adorable of a couple you and S make! Stunners :)
ReplyDeleteIt sound like you've got so many great things going on! I've got gone girl and dark places on my read list!
ReplyDeleteYou guys are gonna have some cute babies, just sayin'. Oh, and I'll totally volunteer to come and plan your wedding.
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